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Pink candle ritual to open yourself to love

This ritual does not try to bind anyone or change another person's will: its purpose is to open your heart, remind you of what you deserve and prepare you to receive a healthy love.

By the Cardaluna editorial team · Updated

In short: This ritual does not try to bind anyone or change another person's will: its purpose is to open your heart, remind you of what you deserve and prepare you to receive a healthy love. You need 4 simple items and 6 steps. When: During a waxing moon or on a Friday, the day traditionally linked to Venus.

When to do it

During a waxing moon or on a Friday, the day traditionally linked to Venus. Choose a quiet moment in the evening.

What you need

  • A small pink candle in a stable holder
  • A sheet of paper and a pen
  • A few rose petals or a fresh flower (optional)
  • A glass of water

Step by step

  1. Tidy and air the room. Place the candle on a non-flammable surface with the petals around it.
  2. Sit comfortably, take three deep breaths and light the candle.
  3. Write down three qualities you want to give and receive in love (for example: respect, tenderness, joy).
  4. Read the list aloud while looking at the flame and finish with: "I open myself to a love that is good for me."
  5. Take a sip of water as a symbol of taking in that intention, and stay with the candle for a few more minutes.
  6. Put out the candle with a snuffer, keep the paper in a special book or drawer, and place a flower somewhere visible at home.

Safety first

Never leave a lit candle unattended. Place it in a stable, heat-resistant holder away from curtains, paper, children and pets, and put it out with a snuffer.

These rituals are symbolic and meant for entertainment. Do not ingest herbs or oils, ventilate the room when burning incense or herbs, and never perform a ritual to harm or control anyone.

To finish

Over the following days, do something kind for yourself: the love you attract begins with how you treat yourself.

For entertainment purposes only. Results are not guaranteed and this content is no substitute for professional (medical, legal, financial or psychological) advice.